Vows. Promises. Word of Honour. We are familiar with them. We would have made some vows, some promises and words of honour at various times of our lives to various people: Our spouses, our employers, our country (through the pledge), even our parents and friends.
Question is: What is the real significance when we uttered those vows and promises? Is it still relevant in the modern 21st century where people no longer take their vows and promises seriously in the light of a self-serving environment? Yes, ours is the proverbial “I’ll do my best, but NO PROMISES…” Sounds familiar? You just hate it when someone disclaimed their liabilities and make light their expectation to deliver. In other words, is there a wow factor in the vow anymore in these age?
I believe there is meaning and purpose behind every well-crafted vow and promise. It is the purpose behind these words that give them significance. Essentially, it is an agreement and determination to be true and stay true. The Bible calls this consecration. Set aside. To be given priority. To be held above all else.
Is this mentality the driving force of your vows and promises – to be true and stay true? Even when the circumstances when you made those vows have changed? I drew inspirations from the sermon I heard 2 week ago about the Nazirite vow. The nature might be different but I think the application is the same.
Recently, I heard and witnessed a lot of couples struggling to keep their marriage intact and in place. Some resented their spouse. Some rejected each other already. Some get distracted by third parties and abandoned their first love. Some claimed that they have tried and exhausted all means for reconciliation.
Bullshit!
Excuses!!
Liars!!!!!!!
Truth is: They just don't want to...
Some becomes outlaws with their in-laws. Joking still, some said, "Divorce? Never! Murder? Maybe!" Husbands and wives stayed on the lifeless marriage because of the house, the kids, the finances, even ...the dog. Sad but true. How to salvage?
I believe we need to return to the very first altar when things began. Go back to the history. Why we get together in the first place? Let’s examine the basic tenets of the vow and then cast it against the backdrop of our marital vow.
A. It is all about BEING DEDICATED TO
When one make a vow (to a spouse), it is meant to be wholly dedicated to him or her. Or in another version, says “to belong to in a special way”. There are 4 possible reasons why someone would dedicate to another as spouse:
To make a ransom demand: “I dedicate myself to you, and you MUST DO THIS AND THIS….” A spouse-napper.
To gain a reward: “I dedicate myself to you so that you WILL GIVE ME…OR I WANT THIS….” A Things-Lover.
To repay a favour: “I dedicate myself to you because you HAVE DONE THIS FOR ME…..........” A grateful-partner.
A committed love response: “I dedicate myself to you because I want to bless you and make your joy my No.1 priority”.
A True Lover.
Don’t be a Things-Lover or Spouse-napper.
B. It is all about BEING SEPARATED FROM
When you study it, the Marriage Vow has at least 4 interesting features:
1. It is unique and exclusive. (Forsaking all, be faithful to ONE)
2. It is public. (In the presence of God and these witnesses…)
3. It is costly. (In sickness or health, through good/ bad times, for better/ worst, in plenty/ in want…no matter come what may… )
4. It is temporal. (as in till death do us part and be re-united when Christ returns)
Don’t let anything come in between the marriage. The union is non-negotiable. Divorce is not an option. Don’t make convenient excuses and look for way out at the very first sign of trouble. That is the summation of the vows. Being “separated from” others to be “alone with” each other.
C. It is all about BEING DESTINED FOR
When two individuals got married, the two shall become one. Problems start when the couples ask, “Which one”? Answer: Christ. That is the eventual destiny of the couple. One for another, both for the LORD (these were the words engraved on the inside of our wedding bands). There is a higher upward agenda then just mastering transitions from young married to old grandparents. When both couple seeks to draw near and imitate Christ, the two shall become spiritually one, not just mere physical or mental or social oneness. The vow seeks unity and oneness in Christ.
Inadvertently, when the vow is threatened or broken, I believe God has made provision for reinstatement, through a journey of healing and restoration by grace through faith and scriptures. I will not dwell on inner healing here. The main focus here is the centrality of the vow.
For young couples starting out, remember the vow you took. They are sacred. Don't lose sight.
For older couples who are struggling, remember the vow you took. Consecrate yourself anew and afresh to each other. Don't lose hope. Don’t give up, or give in to temptations. Be willing to pay the price, any price, to finish well.
Go.
Press on.
Dedicate yourself to God.
Consecrate your marriage again.
The goal is to not just start but finish well.
The bumps on the road are what we climb on to progress.
A good and strong marriage takes lots of effort and sacrifice….and… it is worth everything.
King of the Birds, Lord of the Skies
Gather ye rose buds while ye may, old time is still a flying;
and this same rose that you see today, tomorrow will be dying.
CarpeDiem: Seize the Day!
- Dead Poets Society
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Sunday, March 22, 2009
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
Unemployment - Hope for Those Between Jobs
Unemployment. Retrenchment. Job loss. All these increase a person's risk of depression and self-doubt. Different people react differently to unemployment, or the possibility of it. When word is out that their company is planning a major downsizing, or when the actual retrenchment comes, some feel vulnerable and anxious. Some are concerned about providing for family. Others are depressed that they cannot afford to continue to live in luxury. Still others are bitter that they got axed.
Whatever the emotions, being without job or unemployed is painful.
In the current global financial crisis and recession, it is inevitable that we will know of friends and loved ones who are (or will be) affected by retrenchment. How is the retrenched person to cope? What can we as friends do?
I would like to approach this sensitive issue from two front: First, my response as a friend, and second, the response as a retrenched person.
1. Response as a Friend.
We must be understanding. Job loss put people of all ages and social status into a period of agonizing uncertainty.
We must be encouraging. It is a tough period of life. A warm friendship that gently points a person to God or to some source of hope is comforting.
We must be sensitive. Don’t assume that the person can join you in outings, vacations or eating out as readily as before. Genuinely offer to pay for them (especially those with children)
We must be helpful. Perhaps you know of a temporary job to recommend. Or volunteer to take the kids out. Or offer some practical helps. It is appreciated even if the offer is not taken.
We must be prayerful (for those who believe in God). God answers prayer and people (not just the Christians) appreciate being prayed for. Lets rally around that person or family in prayer.
2. Response as a Retrenched Person/ Christian.
Replace Worry with Trust. Jesus said, “Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you” (Matt6:33). Hold fast to the promises of God!
Walk closer with God. Some Christian friends have testified that in the previous recession, the retrenchment was the best things that had happened in their lives because they tend to walk closer with God and align their agendas spiritually.
Determine God’s Purpose. Crisis refines us. Our response to crisis defines us. There is purpose in the midst of pain. We can choose to be better or bitter. Knowing God’s purpose in our life helps us to be better.
Use your Time wisely. Don’t stay at home in front of the TV and wallow in self-pity. Invest your time to do what you have always wanted to do but didn’t have the time. Also, plan a definite number of hours each day to search for a job, and stick to it. Don’t let closed doors discourage you.
Join a support Group (like church group). God never intends for us to walk and struggle alone, but rather for us to be in a community. Learn to minister to each other and build each other up in the same crisis!
Review your Budget. Establish a low budget during the job search period. Simplify your life. Some luxuries can do without some times. Discourage the use of credit cards during days of financial uncertainty.
Resist the Temptation to do away with Tithing. Sure. Review it. But don’t stop giving. Even if it’s a “widow’s mite”. Given in the right spirit, God will honour it. God is no man’s debtor!
Faith does not preclude an absence of troubles in life. Rather, true faith allows for problems in life and yet trusts God to be the anchor in those storms. Jesus said that when these storms come, they actually test the foundation of our life, whether it has been built on solid rock or sinking sand (Matt 7:24). Hold fast to God’s word. Respond aright in crisis that God might bring us through the crisis. In Christ, we are victors of our circumstances, not victims.
Whatever the emotions, being without job or unemployed is painful.
In the current global financial crisis and recession, it is inevitable that we will know of friends and loved ones who are (or will be) affected by retrenchment. How is the retrenched person to cope? What can we as friends do?
I would like to approach this sensitive issue from two front: First, my response as a friend, and second, the response as a retrenched person.
1. Response as a Friend.
We must be understanding. Job loss put people of all ages and social status into a period of agonizing uncertainty.
We must be encouraging. It is a tough period of life. A warm friendship that gently points a person to God or to some source of hope is comforting.
We must be sensitive. Don’t assume that the person can join you in outings, vacations or eating out as readily as before. Genuinely offer to pay for them (especially those with children)
We must be helpful. Perhaps you know of a temporary job to recommend. Or volunteer to take the kids out. Or offer some practical helps. It is appreciated even if the offer is not taken.
We must be prayerful (for those who believe in God). God answers prayer and people (not just the Christians) appreciate being prayed for. Lets rally around that person or family in prayer.
2. Response as a Retrenched Person/ Christian.
Replace Worry with Trust. Jesus said, “Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you” (Matt6:33). Hold fast to the promises of God!
Walk closer with God. Some Christian friends have testified that in the previous recession, the retrenchment was the best things that had happened in their lives because they tend to walk closer with God and align their agendas spiritually.
Determine God’s Purpose. Crisis refines us. Our response to crisis defines us. There is purpose in the midst of pain. We can choose to be better or bitter. Knowing God’s purpose in our life helps us to be better.
Use your Time wisely. Don’t stay at home in front of the TV and wallow in self-pity. Invest your time to do what you have always wanted to do but didn’t have the time. Also, plan a definite number of hours each day to search for a job, and stick to it. Don’t let closed doors discourage you.
Join a support Group (like church group). God never intends for us to walk and struggle alone, but rather for us to be in a community. Learn to minister to each other and build each other up in the same crisis!
Review your Budget. Establish a low budget during the job search period. Simplify your life. Some luxuries can do without some times. Discourage the use of credit cards during days of financial uncertainty.
Resist the Temptation to do away with Tithing. Sure. Review it. But don’t stop giving. Even if it’s a “widow’s mite”. Given in the right spirit, God will honour it. God is no man’s debtor!
Faith does not preclude an absence of troubles in life. Rather, true faith allows for problems in life and yet trusts God to be the anchor in those storms. Jesus said that when these storms come, they actually test the foundation of our life, whether it has been built on solid rock or sinking sand (Matt 7:24). Hold fast to God’s word. Respond aright in crisis that God might bring us through the crisis. In Christ, we are victors of our circumstances, not victims.
Friday, February 27, 2009
Huperetes
"Huperetes" - literally means bottom-rower or under-rowers. Servants, in today's context.
"I have appeared to you for this purpose, to make you a huperetes (bottom rower)..."
Acts 26:16
These are the words of the Lord to the Apostle Paul on the road to Damascus. Paul, considered by many to be the greatest Apostle, was not called to be a mighty pastor, or evangelist, or even given a prominance among the twelve. He was simply called to be a bottom rower, a lowly galley slave...chained in place, never seeing where he was going, always moving with the same stroke at the will and command of the Master. No glory!
Many people today decide on their own that the Lord has called them to be something glorified. Maybe you think you ought to be the captain, or the helmsman, or even a mighty marine ready for battle. In reality, the Lord has called you to be a bottom rower. How do we know? Because He is the Captain, He is the Helmsman, He is the Soldier. All things are done for His glory, not ours. He asks us to walk in faith one step at a time, one stroke of the oar at a time.
Ours is an age of consumerism. An ungodly and carnal generation totally immersed in the preoccupation with 'my rights' and 'my choices'. There is a radical need to be tutored to serve God on His terms, not ours. We are taught the great reversal - the greater to serve the lesser.
Four key enemies to a servant of Christ, a 'huperetes'; four key spirits of our age. They are:
A consumer spirit - We fight for our rights, but go light on our responsibilities. There is nothing inherently wrong with having rights, it is dangerous when we only want our rights but discard the associating responsibilities. Many didn't know that with rights comes responsibilities. A consumer says "What's in for me?" A servant says "Can I serve you?" We need to cultivate a serving spirit. Don't covet.
A competitive spirit - We compete all the time, and on just about anything. Best view, best seats, best spot, VIP treatment, best coverage, best floor, best car, best corner office, best work table, the list goes on. The problem with competition is the "at any cost" mentality. The "to be top at all cost" attitude sabotages the proper process and posture for promotion to such high places and positions. We need to cultivate a grateful spirit. Don't exploit.
A compromising spirit - We go easy on ourselves, all the time. We lower the standards over the years for ourselves, gives excuses, and cut corners, but only for ourselves. The moral line is blurred or non-existing. A little here, a little there, we compromise and leak, a drop at a time. We need to cultivate a spirit of moral excellence. Don't succumb under.
A complaining spirit.
The best part is, if others demand some rights from us, or compromise, or just do the same things mentioned above to us, we complain, get mad, and get even. Worst, we get bitter. It is always their fault. They shouldn't do this to me. I demand a reason for such treatment...and so on. We complain because we do not regard that God is in control, and therefore we often take matters into our own hands. We need to cultivate a meek spirit. Don't churn within.
Such carnal mindsets must go for a huperetes. We are called to radical & authentic servanthood. Today is that day.
"I have appeared to you for this purpose, to make you a huperetes (bottom rower)..."
Acts 26:16
These are the words of the Lord to the Apostle Paul on the road to Damascus. Paul, considered by many to be the greatest Apostle, was not called to be a mighty pastor, or evangelist, or even given a prominance among the twelve. He was simply called to be a bottom rower, a lowly galley slave...chained in place, never seeing where he was going, always moving with the same stroke at the will and command of the Master. No glory!
Many people today decide on their own that the Lord has called them to be something glorified. Maybe you think you ought to be the captain, or the helmsman, or even a mighty marine ready for battle. In reality, the Lord has called you to be a bottom rower. How do we know? Because He is the Captain, He is the Helmsman, He is the Soldier. All things are done for His glory, not ours. He asks us to walk in faith one step at a time, one stroke of the oar at a time.
Ours is an age of consumerism. An ungodly and carnal generation totally immersed in the preoccupation with 'my rights' and 'my choices'. There is a radical need to be tutored to serve God on His terms, not ours. We are taught the great reversal - the greater to serve the lesser.
Four key enemies to a servant of Christ, a 'huperetes'; four key spirits of our age. They are:
A consumer spirit - We fight for our rights, but go light on our responsibilities. There is nothing inherently wrong with having rights, it is dangerous when we only want our rights but discard the associating responsibilities. Many didn't know that with rights comes responsibilities. A consumer says "What's in for me?" A servant says "Can I serve you?" We need to cultivate a serving spirit. Don't covet.
A competitive spirit - We compete all the time, and on just about anything. Best view, best seats, best spot, VIP treatment, best coverage, best floor, best car, best corner office, best work table, the list goes on. The problem with competition is the "at any cost" mentality. The "to be top at all cost" attitude sabotages the proper process and posture for promotion to such high places and positions. We need to cultivate a grateful spirit. Don't exploit.
A compromising spirit - We go easy on ourselves, all the time. We lower the standards over the years for ourselves, gives excuses, and cut corners, but only for ourselves. The moral line is blurred or non-existing. A little here, a little there, we compromise and leak, a drop at a time. We need to cultivate a spirit of moral excellence. Don't succumb under.
A complaining spirit.
The best part is, if others demand some rights from us, or compromise, or just do the same things mentioned above to us, we complain, get mad, and get even. Worst, we get bitter. It is always their fault. They shouldn't do this to me. I demand a reason for such treatment...and so on. We complain because we do not regard that God is in control, and therefore we often take matters into our own hands. We need to cultivate a meek spirit. Don't churn within.
Such carnal mindsets must go for a huperetes. We are called to radical & authentic servanthood. Today is that day.
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
Believe in Yourself? Half the truth only :)
Last night, I was at a company function and heard someone said, "After tomorrow, the White House will no longer be white"... haha. It brought the house down!
Today, Mr Obama took over and sworn in as the 44th President of the USA.
Many people asked: "Can Obama deliver"? Last week, I came across an interesting USA TODAY/ Gallup Poll. It seems that there are stratospheric expectations for Obama. A majority of those surveyed say Obama will be able to achieve every one of 10 major campaign promises. Every - Single - One!
I don't want to dampen hopes, and I'm not quoting this to make any predictions. But reading this poll just made me think to myself:
Why people often count on others to make changes or to deliver results?
How come it's easier for people to believe in someone they haven't met to make change in their lives, and yet they find it so hard to believe in themselves?
Isn't it time you believed in YOURSELF to make the change you want to see this year? But wait, that's not the reason why I blog this here. Believing in yourself is only half the equation.
Yes, you should believe in others sometimes, but there is One that you should believe in and put your hope and future in EVERYTIME - the LORD Jesus!
You see, those who quote that you should believe in yourself is only half correct. To me, believing in the One who changes not and who does not fail nor falter holds much more confidence than placing my trust in someone, met or not met, near or half way across the globe.
Who do you place your confidence in this year?
Today, Mr Obama took over and sworn in as the 44th President of the USA.
Many people asked: "Can Obama deliver"? Last week, I came across an interesting USA TODAY/ Gallup Poll. It seems that there are stratospheric expectations for Obama. A majority of those surveyed say Obama will be able to achieve every one of 10 major campaign promises. Every - Single - One!
I don't want to dampen hopes, and I'm not quoting this to make any predictions. But reading this poll just made me think to myself:
Why people often count on others to make changes or to deliver results?
How come it's easier for people to believe in someone they haven't met to make change in their lives, and yet they find it so hard to believe in themselves?
Isn't it time you believed in YOURSELF to make the change you want to see this year? But wait, that's not the reason why I blog this here. Believing in yourself is only half the equation.
Yes, you should believe in others sometimes, but there is One that you should believe in and put your hope and future in EVERYTIME - the LORD Jesus!
You see, those who quote that you should believe in yourself is only half correct. To me, believing in the One who changes not and who does not fail nor falter holds much more confidence than placing my trust in someone, met or not met, near or half way across the globe.
Who do you place your confidence in this year?
Sunday, June 1, 2008
7 Basic Life Principles
The Principle of Design:
Thanking God for your design enables self acceptance.
The Principle of Authority:
Honouring your authorities brings inward peace.
The Principle of Responsibility:
Asking for forgiveness reaps a clear conscience.
The Principle of Suffering:
Fully forgiving others brings genuine joy.
The Principle of Ownership:
Yielding your rights to God brings true security.
The Principle of Freedom:
Reclaiming areas controlled by sins brings moral purity.
The Principle of Success:
Meditating on Scriptures reveals life's purpose.
Isn't these what we need and want?
Thanking God for your design enables self acceptance.
The Principle of Authority:
Honouring your authorities brings inward peace.
The Principle of Responsibility:
Asking for forgiveness reaps a clear conscience.
The Principle of Suffering:
Fully forgiving others brings genuine joy.
The Principle of Ownership:
Yielding your rights to God brings true security.
The Principle of Freedom:
Reclaiming areas controlled by sins brings moral purity.
The Principle of Success:
Meditating on Scriptures reveals life's purpose.
Isn't these what we need and want?
Thursday, May 22, 2008
The Prayer of Jabez
Dear Father,
I desire to be the most honourable person in Your kingdom, fit for the Master's use.
Today I pray that You would bless me indeed;
and enlarge my territory, my influence and my opportunities;
that Your hand would be with me, leading and guiding my thoughts and decisions;
that You would keep me, my family and my interests from evil.
Lord, may You cause me to bring blessings, joy and comfort to all that I come in contact with today.
In Jesus' Name, Amen
(2 Chron 4:10)
My own paraphrased version 2008
I desire to be the most honourable person in Your kingdom, fit for the Master's use.
Today I pray that You would bless me indeed;
and enlarge my territory, my influence and my opportunities;
that Your hand would be with me, leading and guiding my thoughts and decisions;
that You would keep me, my family and my interests from evil.
Lord, may You cause me to bring blessings, joy and comfort to all that I come in contact with today.
In Jesus' Name, Amen
(2 Chron 4:10)
My own paraphrased version 2008
Sunday, May 11, 2008
What is Power?
Power is acknowledging our weaknesses and accepting our limitations as loving reminders to enter into Christ's strength.
"... For the joy of the Lord is your strength."
(Nehemiah 8:10)
"...[God's] strength is made perfect in weakness..."
(2 Cor 12:9)
"... For the joy of the Lord is your strength."
(Nehemiah 8:10)
"...[God's] strength is made perfect in weakness..."
(2 Cor 12:9)
Tuesday, October 30, 2007
Why God Allows PAIN?
This is one of the best explanations of why God allows pain and suffering ...
A man went to a barbershop to have his hair cut and his beard trimmed. As the barber began to work, they began to have a good conversation. They talked about so many things and various subjects. When they eventually touched on the subject of God, the barber said: "I don't believe that God exists."
"Why do you say that?" asked the customer. "Well, you just have to go out in the street to realize that God doesn't exist. Tell me, if God exists, would there be so many sick people? Would there be abandoned children?
If God existed, there would be neither suffering nor pain. I can't imagine a loving God who would allow all of these things." The customer thought for a moment, but didn't respond because he didn't want to start an argument. The barber! finishe d his job and the customer left the shop.
Just after he left the barbershop, he saw a man in the street with long, stringy, dirty hair and an untrimmed beard. He looked dirty and unkempt. The customer turned back and entered the barber shop again and he said to the barber: "You know what? Barbers do not exist." "How can you say that?" asked the surprised barber. "I am here, and I am a barber. And I just worked on you!" "No!" the customer exclaimed. "Barbers don't exist because if they did, there would be no people with dirty long hair and untrimmed beards, like that man outside."
"Ah, but barbers DO exist! That's what happens when people do not come to me." "Exactly!" affirmed the customer. "That's the point! God, too, DOES exist! That's what happens when people do not go to Him and don't look to Him for help. That's why there's so much pain and suffering in the world."
So, if you want to argue with your barber, let him finish his cutting first, okay?
A man went to a barbershop to have his hair cut and his beard trimmed. As the barber began to work, they began to have a good conversation. They talked about so many things and various subjects. When they eventually touched on the subject of God, the barber said: "I don't believe that God exists."
"Why do you say that?" asked the customer. "Well, you just have to go out in the street to realize that God doesn't exist. Tell me, if God exists, would there be so many sick people? Would there be abandoned children?
If God existed, there would be neither suffering nor pain. I can't imagine a loving God who would allow all of these things." The customer thought for a moment, but didn't respond because he didn't want to start an argument. The barber! finishe d his job and the customer left the shop.
Just after he left the barbershop, he saw a man in the street with long, stringy, dirty hair and an untrimmed beard. He looked dirty and unkempt. The customer turned back and entered the barber shop again and he said to the barber: "You know what? Barbers do not exist." "How can you say that?" asked the surprised barber. "I am here, and I am a barber. And I just worked on you!" "No!" the customer exclaimed. "Barbers don't exist because if they did, there would be no people with dirty long hair and untrimmed beards, like that man outside."
"Ah, but barbers DO exist! That's what happens when people do not come to me." "Exactly!" affirmed the customer. "That's the point! God, too, DOES exist! That's what happens when people do not go to Him and don't look to Him for help. That's why there's so much pain and suffering in the world."
So, if you want to argue with your barber, let him finish his cutting first, okay?
Saturday, August 25, 2007
Only the Real Ones
God will supply all your real needs.
- Unknown
I have heard it over and over again when I was in church: "My God shall supply all my needs ...". I agree. But I also agree that He will supply and meet all my needs according to His wisdom and in His good season. That means I must trust in His goodness and timing, cos there is a reason and a season for everything under the sun.
So, have faith, my friends. God will surely supply all your real needs, really!
- Unknown
I have heard it over and over again when I was in church: "My God shall supply all my needs ...". I agree. But I also agree that He will supply and meet all my needs according to His wisdom and in His good season. That means I must trust in His goodness and timing, cos there is a reason and a season for everything under the sun.
So, have faith, my friends. God will surely supply all your real needs, really!
Saturday, June 9, 2007
The Truth About His Name
DID YOU KNOW THESE FACTS?
Death is certain but the Bible speaks about untimely death! Make a personal reflection about this. Very interesting, read until the end of the verse. It is written in the Bible (Galatians 6:7):
"Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap."
Here are some men & women who mocked God:
John Lennon (Singer):
Some years before, during his interview with an American Magazine, he said:
"Christianity will end, it will disappear. I do not have to argue about that. I am certain. Jesus was ok, but his subjects were too simple, ... today we are more famous than Him" (1966).
Lennon, after saying that the Beatles were more famous than Jesus Christ, was shot six times.
Tancredo Neves (President of Brazil):
During the Presidential campaign, he said if he got 500,000 votes from his party, not even God would remove him from Presidency. Sure he got the votes, but he got sick a day before being made President, then he died.
Cazuza (Bi-sexual Brazilian composer, singer & poet):
During a show in Canecio (Rio de Janeiro), while smoking his cigarette, he puffed out some smoke into the air & said: "God, that's for you."
He died at the age of 32 of AIDS in a horrible manner.
The man who built the Titanic
After the construction of Titanic, a reporter asked him how safe the Titanic would be. With an ironic tone he said: "Not even God can sink it"
The result: I think you all know what happened to the Titanic .
Marilyn Monroe (Actress)
She was visited by Billy Graham during a presentation of a show. He said the Spirit of God had sent him to preach to her. After hearing what the Preacher had to say, she said: "I don't need your Jesus".
A week later, she was found dead in her apartment .
Bon Scott (Singer)
The ex-vocalist of the AC/DC. On one of his 1979 songs he sang: "Don't stop me, I'm going down all the way, down the highway to hell". On the 19th of February 1980, Bon Scott was found dead, he had been choked by his own vomit.
Campinas (In 2005)
In Campinas, Brazil, a group of friends, drunk, went to pick up a friend. The mother accompanied her to the car & was so worried about the drunkenness of her friends & she said to the daughter holding her hand, who was already seated in the car:
"My daughter, go with God & may He protect you."
She responded: "Only if He (God) travels in the trunk, cause inside here....it's already full "
Hours later, news came by that they had been involved in a fatal accident, everyone had died, the car could not be recognized what type of car it had been, but surprisingly, the trunk was intact. The police said there was no way the trunk could have remained intact. To their surprise, inside the trunk was a crate of eggs, none were broken.
Christine Hewitt (Jamaican Journalist & entertainer)
Said the Bible (Word of God) was the worst book ever written. In June 2006 she was found burnt beyond recognition in her motor vehicle .
Many more important people have forgotten that there is no other name that was given so much authority as the name of Jesus. Many have died, but only Jesus died & rose again, & He is still alive.
"If you are embarrassed about me, I will also be embarrassed about you before my Father."
Death is certain but the Bible speaks about untimely death! Make a personal reflection about this. Very interesting, read until the end of the verse. It is written in the Bible (Galatians 6:7):
"Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap."
Here are some men & women who mocked God:
John Lennon (Singer):
Some years before, during his interview with an American Magazine, he said:
"Christianity will end, it will disappear. I do not have to argue about that. I am certain. Jesus was ok, but his subjects were too simple, ... today we are more famous than Him" (1966).
Lennon, after saying that the Beatles were more famous than Jesus Christ, was shot six times.
Tancredo Neves (President of Brazil):
During the Presidential campaign, he said if he got 500,000 votes from his party, not even God would remove him from Presidency. Sure he got the votes, but he got sick a day before being made President, then he died.
Cazuza (Bi-sexual Brazilian composer, singer & poet):
During a show in Canecio (Rio de Janeiro), while smoking his cigarette, he puffed out some smoke into the air & said: "God, that's for you."
He died at the age of 32 of AIDS in a horrible manner.
The man who built the Titanic
After the construction of Titanic, a reporter asked him how safe the Titanic would be. With an ironic tone he said: "Not even God can sink it"
The result: I think you all know what happened to the Titanic .
Marilyn Monroe (Actress)
She was visited by Billy Graham during a presentation of a show. He said the Spirit of God had sent him to preach to her. After hearing what the Preacher had to say, she said: "I don't need your Jesus".
A week later, she was found dead in her apartment .
Bon Scott (Singer)
The ex-vocalist of the AC/DC. On one of his 1979 songs he sang: "Don't stop me, I'm going down all the way, down the highway to hell". On the 19th of February 1980, Bon Scott was found dead, he had been choked by his own vomit.
Campinas (In 2005)
In Campinas, Brazil, a group of friends, drunk, went to pick up a friend. The mother accompanied her to the car & was so worried about the drunkenness of her friends & she said to the daughter holding her hand, who was already seated in the car:
"My daughter, go with God & may He protect you."
She responded: "Only if He (God) travels in the trunk, cause inside here....it's already full "
Hours later, news came by that they had been involved in a fatal accident, everyone had died, the car could not be recognized what type of car it had been, but surprisingly, the trunk was intact. The police said there was no way the trunk could have remained intact. To their surprise, inside the trunk was a crate of eggs, none were broken.
Christine Hewitt (Jamaican Journalist & entertainer)
Said the Bible (Word of God) was the worst book ever written. In June 2006 she was found burnt beyond recognition in her motor vehicle .
Many more important people have forgotten that there is no other name that was given so much authority as the name of Jesus. Many have died, but only Jesus died & rose again, & He is still alive.
"If you are embarrassed about me, I will also be embarrassed about you before my Father."
Monday, May 14, 2007
Your Reputation: Example or Warning?
"Each of us must be committed to maintaining the reputation of all of us. And all of us must be committed to maintaining the reputation of each of us."
"Accuracy builds credibility."
- Jim Rohn
The Bible gives us a list of human stories on both sides of the ledger. One list of human stories is used as examples – do what these people did. Another list of human stories is used as warnings - don't do what these people did. So if your life story ever gets in one of these books, make sure they use it as an example, not a warning!
Remember: It only takes one lie to taint your entire testimony in a court of law. Honesty is a vital part of having a good reputation & credibility. Guard yours at all cost!
"Accuracy builds credibility."
- Jim Rohn
The Bible gives us a list of human stories on both sides of the ledger. One list of human stories is used as examples – do what these people did. Another list of human stories is used as warnings - don't do what these people did. So if your life story ever gets in one of these books, make sure they use it as an example, not a warning!
Remember: It only takes one lie to taint your entire testimony in a court of law. Honesty is a vital part of having a good reputation & credibility. Guard yours at all cost!
Wednesday, May 9, 2007
Our Greatness...
"As human beings, our greatness lies not so much in being able to remake the world ... as in being able to remake ourselves."
- Mahatma Gandhi
Totally agree. My world changed when I changed. I sometimes tend to think that everywhere I go (be it workplace, church, or social gatherings), the problems seems to be the same, because the person (me) is the same. I think I need to put aside my criticism & judgement & be a little open-minded.
I think I need to reprogram my mind (Mental Renewal as in Rom 12:2a) & take steps to challenge old habits of framing my situations & circumstances.
"And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what the will of God is..."
Romans 12:2a
My world should change for the better, very soon :)
- Mahatma Gandhi
Totally agree. My world changed when I changed. I sometimes tend to think that everywhere I go (be it workplace, church, or social gatherings), the problems seems to be the same, because the person (me) is the same. I think I need to put aside my criticism & judgement & be a little open-minded.
I think I need to reprogram my mind (Mental Renewal as in Rom 12:2a) & take steps to challenge old habits of framing my situations & circumstances.
"And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what the will of God is..."
Romans 12:2a
My world should change for the better, very soon :)
Our Greatest Fear
"Our greatest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our greatest fear is that we are powerful beyond belief. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. Your playing small doesn’t serve the world. We were born to manifest the glory – put on display, to show – the glory of God that is within us....you may be a dirt clod, but there is greatness & power & glory that resides in every singe human being.”
- Nelson Mandela
My take on this "There is greatness in mankind" thingy: Be careful, though, & watchful. I mean it. I am referring to the gradual but certain elevation of the love of self, within & without the church. In the truest state of fallen humanity, we can still witness the man-centered myth in the adulation of man from varous cultural icon. Within this emerging cult of the new liberal theology springs forth new ideals which can be poisonous to the individual as well as to the body of Christ.
Yes, there is certainly a place for glory & honor where God our Father intends to exult through His Son. However, to me this “glory and honor” that resides in every single human being is questionable. Admittedly, we are fragile but yet filled with the potential for glory & honor. A lot of balance thinking is required here, and I don't think I am qualified to exposit any further, except by closing with this scripture quotation:
"But realize this, that in the last days difficult times will come. For men will be lovers of self."
(2 Timothy 3:2, NASB)
Any comment?
- Nelson Mandela
My take on this "There is greatness in mankind" thingy: Be careful, though, & watchful. I mean it. I am referring to the gradual but certain elevation of the love of self, within & without the church. In the truest state of fallen humanity, we can still witness the man-centered myth in the adulation of man from varous cultural icon. Within this emerging cult of the new liberal theology springs forth new ideals which can be poisonous to the individual as well as to the body of Christ.
Yes, there is certainly a place for glory & honor where God our Father intends to exult through His Son. However, to me this “glory and honor” that resides in every single human being is questionable. Admittedly, we are fragile but yet filled with the potential for glory & honor. A lot of balance thinking is required here, and I don't think I am qualified to exposit any further, except by closing with this scripture quotation:
"But realize this, that in the last days difficult times will come. For men will be lovers of self."
(2 Timothy 3:2, NASB)
Any comment?
Monday, May 7, 2007
Only by Grace
Bob was caught up in the spirit where he & the Lord stood by to observe a baseball game. The Lord's team was playing Satan's team. The Lord's team was at bat, the score was tied zero to zero, & it was the bottom of the 9th inning with two outs. They continued to watch as a batter stepped up to the plate whose name was Love.
Love swung at the first pitch & hit a single, because Love never fails.
The next batter was named Faith, who also got a single because Faith works with Love.
The next batter up was named Godly Wisdom. Satan wound up & threw the first pitch; Godly Wisdom looked it over and let it pass, because Godly Wisdom does not swing at Satan's pitches. Ball one! Three more pitches & Godly Wisdom walked, because Godly Wisdom never swings at Satan's throws. The bases were loaded.
The Lord then turned to Bob & told him He was now going to bring in His star player. Up to the plate stepped Grace. Bob said he sure did not look like much! Satan's whole team relaxed when they saw Grace.
Thinking he had won the game, Satan wound up & fired his first pitch. To the shock of everyone, Grace hit the ball harder than anyone had ever seen.
But Satan was not worried; his center fielder, the Prince of the air, let very few get by. He went up for the ball, but it went right through his glove, hit him on the head & sent him crashing on the ground; then it continued over the fence for a homerun! The Lord's team won.
The Lord then asked Bob if he knew why Love, Faith, and Godly Wisdom could get on base but could not win the game. Bob answered that he did not know why.
The Lord explained, "If your love, faith & wisdom had won the game, you would have thought you had done it by yourself. Love, faith & wisdom will get you on base, but only My grace can get you home."
-Author Unknown
Love swung at the first pitch & hit a single, because Love never fails.
The next batter was named Faith, who also got a single because Faith works with Love.
The next batter up was named Godly Wisdom. Satan wound up & threw the first pitch; Godly Wisdom looked it over and let it pass, because Godly Wisdom does not swing at Satan's pitches. Ball one! Three more pitches & Godly Wisdom walked, because Godly Wisdom never swings at Satan's throws. The bases were loaded.
The Lord then turned to Bob & told him He was now going to bring in His star player. Up to the plate stepped Grace. Bob said he sure did not look like much! Satan's whole team relaxed when they saw Grace.
Thinking he had won the game, Satan wound up & fired his first pitch. To the shock of everyone, Grace hit the ball harder than anyone had ever seen.
But Satan was not worried; his center fielder, the Prince of the air, let very few get by. He went up for the ball, but it went right through his glove, hit him on the head & sent him crashing on the ground; then it continued over the fence for a homerun! The Lord's team won.
The Lord then asked Bob if he knew why Love, Faith, and Godly Wisdom could get on base but could not win the game. Bob answered that he did not know why.
The Lord explained, "If your love, faith & wisdom had won the game, you would have thought you had done it by yourself. Love, faith & wisdom will get you on base, but only My grace can get you home."
-Author Unknown
Saturday, May 5, 2007
Fatherhood
"The ultimate revelation of God, therefore, in the New Testament, is the revelation of God as Father. And the ultimate purpose of the New Testament, the very reason why Jesus Himself came, is to bring us to God...."
"When we come into the fullness of this revelation of God & into that direct relationship with God as Father, it supplies certain things which are conspicuously lacking in the emotional experience of perhaps the majority of the people in our culture. The three things which come out of this revelation & this relationship are: identity, self-worth, & security."
Derek Prince
From the book Fatherhood
"When we come into the fullness of this revelation of God & into that direct relationship with God as Father, it supplies certain things which are conspicuously lacking in the emotional experience of perhaps the majority of the people in our culture. The three things which come out of this revelation & this relationship are: identity, self-worth, & security."
Derek Prince
From the book Fatherhood
Thursday, May 3, 2007
Anxiety Does Not Help a Bit
"It has been said that our anxiety does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow, but only empties today of its strength."
Charles Haddon Spurgeon, 1834-1892
Preacher & Author
Charles Haddon Spurgeon, 1834-1892
Preacher & Author
Friday, April 27, 2007
In Whose Hands?
My life in my own hands is a pain and a problem.
My life in God's Hands is a possibility and power!
- Author Unknown
My life in God's Hands is a possibility and power!
- Author Unknown
Monday, April 23, 2007
Fatherlessness
“Fatherlessness is the most harmful demographic trend of this generation…It is the engine driving our most urgent social problems, from crime to adolescent pregnancy to child sexual abuse, to domestic violent against women… we seldom acknowledge the underlying phenomenon that binds together these otherwise disparate issues: the flight of males from their children’s lives…Masculinity became less domesticated, defined less by effective paternity and more by individual ambition and achievement.”
- David Blankenhorn, Fatherlessness in America, 1995
From 'The Four Pillars of a Man's Heart' by Stu Weber
I‘d like to clarify that sometimes having fathers around is as harmful as not having them there at all. To me, fatherlessness is not a word to describe the absence of being, but rather the absence of character role model. Another word for fatherlessness would be a lack of manhood, a lack of applied masculinity. True fatherhood has really very little to do with one’s biological association, but everything to do with responsible character molding and modeling. It is about looking out for the next generation rather than looking out for themselves.
- David Blankenhorn, Fatherlessness in America, 1995
From 'The Four Pillars of a Man's Heart' by Stu Weber
I‘d like to clarify that sometimes having fathers around is as harmful as not having them there at all. To me, fatherlessness is not a word to describe the absence of being, but rather the absence of character role model. Another word for fatherlessness would be a lack of manhood, a lack of applied masculinity. True fatherhood has really very little to do with one’s biological association, but everything to do with responsible character molding and modeling. It is about looking out for the next generation rather than looking out for themselves.
Tuesday, April 17, 2007
Failure in the High Office
“Something’s gone wrong in the heartland. How are we to explain this rapid erosion of standards? How do we rationalize the breakdown of families, neighborhood on edge, street no longer safe…what has happened? With all my heart, I believe we can trace this disaster to failure in high office.
Yes, I am referring to the highest office in the land; and no, I do not mean the presidency of the country. Nor the presidency of any international conglomerate. Nor the chairman of the board. I believe the greatest position a man can hold is his office as head of the home. A man’s greatest title is not “Dr. So and So” or “Professor” or “General” or “Mr Vice President” or “Reverend”. The highest office in the land is not in the White House. It’s in your home.
In God’s economy, a man will never get any higher, never have any greater influence, never wield any greater power than he does as the head of his own home. To fail at home is to have failed everywhere.”
- Stu Weber (from The Four Pillars of a Man's Heart)
Yes, I am referring to the highest office in the land; and no, I do not mean the presidency of the country. Nor the presidency of any international conglomerate. Nor the chairman of the board. I believe the greatest position a man can hold is his office as head of the home. A man’s greatest title is not “Dr. So and So” or “Professor” or “General” or “Mr Vice President” or “Reverend”. The highest office in the land is not in the White House. It’s in your home.
In God’s economy, a man will never get any higher, never have any greater influence, never wield any greater power than he does as the head of his own home. To fail at home is to have failed everywhere.”
- Stu Weber (from The Four Pillars of a Man's Heart)
Thursday, April 12, 2007
The Four Pillars of a Man Part I
"A man's man is a godly man, and a godly man reflects the heart of his Father in who he is and what he does" wrote Gary Oliver, author of 'Real Men Have Feelings Too'.
I have read many books on the subject call "manhood". They all talk about what a man should do, but did not show us what a man can be. Being comes before doing, as I have said earlier.
As a man, I have got to build a family that outlive me. I have got to build a home that outlast me. I have got to build a heritage that stands strong and firm in the winds of time. I have got to build a civilization that does not fall apart with the passing years. I have got to build a legacy on pillars that will not lean or crumble.
What kind of man can accomplish that? What kind of man has shoulders broad enough to build upon? It is the man who learns to lay his foundation in Christ through the following 4 pillars. The 4-pillared man is:
1. A Man of Vision & Character...a King.
2. A Man of Strength & Power ... a Warrior.
3. A Man of Faith & Wisdom ... a Mentor.
4. A Man of Heart & Love ...a Friend.
It is upon these pillars of manhood that my small civilization call "home" will either stand or fall. It takes 4 pillars to hold up a building, a temple, or a home. It will take 4 pillars to make a man - a man who will bear the weight, stand against the elements, and hold one small civilization intact in a chaotic world heading towards destruction & judgement. I had a decision to make, NOW.
I believe it is impossible to be a man, fully masculine, apart from bowing to Jesus Christ as the Lord of your life and submitting to His Word as the ultimate life authority. A man's man is a godly man. A man's man got to do what a man got to do. And a man got to make some tough decisions. Especially this one.
- Stu Weber (from The Four Pillars of a Man's Heart)
Today. I did that, again. I commit myself to the Lordship of Jesus Christ, and I submit to His Word as the ultimate authority for my life.
I want to be a Man...a man's Man. God be my help, I pray.
I have read many books on the subject call "manhood". They all talk about what a man should do, but did not show us what a man can be. Being comes before doing, as I have said earlier.
As a man, I have got to build a family that outlive me. I have got to build a home that outlast me. I have got to build a heritage that stands strong and firm in the winds of time. I have got to build a civilization that does not fall apart with the passing years. I have got to build a legacy on pillars that will not lean or crumble.
What kind of man can accomplish that? What kind of man has shoulders broad enough to build upon? It is the man who learns to lay his foundation in Christ through the following 4 pillars. The 4-pillared man is:
1. A Man of Vision & Character...a King.
2. A Man of Strength & Power ... a Warrior.
3. A Man of Faith & Wisdom ... a Mentor.
4. A Man of Heart & Love ...a Friend.
It is upon these pillars of manhood that my small civilization call "home" will either stand or fall. It takes 4 pillars to hold up a building, a temple, or a home. It will take 4 pillars to make a man - a man who will bear the weight, stand against the elements, and hold one small civilization intact in a chaotic world heading towards destruction & judgement. I had a decision to make, NOW.
I believe it is impossible to be a man, fully masculine, apart from bowing to Jesus Christ as the Lord of your life and submitting to His Word as the ultimate life authority. A man's man is a godly man. A man's man got to do what a man got to do. And a man got to make some tough decisions. Especially this one.
- Stu Weber (from The Four Pillars of a Man's Heart)
Today. I did that, again. I commit myself to the Lordship of Jesus Christ, and I submit to His Word as the ultimate authority for my life.
I want to be a Man...a man's Man. God be my help, I pray.
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