Learn the fifth language: Requesting forgiveness.
This says, “Will you please forgive me?”
When you speak this language, you show the offended person that you want to see the relationship fully restored. Let the person know that you realize you’ve done something wrong, and that you’re willing to put the future of the relationship in his or her hands, since the relationship depends on that person’s choice to either forgive or not forgive.
But never demand forgiveness; understand that it’s a gift that must be given freely.
Don’t expect the person you’ve offended to forgive you immediately, because forgiveness can be costly and take some time.
Ask God to help you be patient as you wait.
Adapted from:
The Five Languages of Apology: How to Experience Healing in All Your Relationships
by Gary Chapman and Jennifer Thomas, 2006
King of the Birds, Lord of the Skies
Gather ye rose buds while ye may, old time is still a flying;
and this same rose that you see today, tomorrow will be dying.
CarpeDiem: Seize the Day!
- Dead Poets Society
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